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I’m a self-love advocate, author, energy healer, love coach, and course creator.  I live in Split, Croatia with my husband and two kitties, Milo and Mario.

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๐ŸŽŠ ITโ€™S HERE!! ๐ŸŽŠ *drumroll please!!* EXCITING NEWS ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ๐Ÿ’•
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The doors to Heal Your Heart are now officially open to the public!!
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Yasss! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
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This is a 21 day healing experience Iโ€™ve created for the woman who is ready to let go and heal from her past unhealthy stories, beliefs, and relationships so she can become available and open to new healthy Love.
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Itโ€™s time to heal.
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Your past does not have to define your future.
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We start on November 25th and you get lifetime access to everything!
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๐ŸŽŠ FAST ACTION BONUS: For the first 48 hours you can join for 25% off by using coupon code: timetoheal at checkout ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
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That makes your investment only $167 or only $333 if you decide to go VIP and get 1:1 support from me. ๐Ÿ˜
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Go to the link in my bio for more details!
The Hardest Thing I've Ever Had to Forgive
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I remember as a little girl wondering "who is my father?" "would he love me if he knew me?" "why is he not around?"
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My mom wouldn't talk about him when I brought up my questions.
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Not only that but her entire energy would change anytime I brought him up in conversation. She'd go from happy to silent and sad in 2 seconds.
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By the time I turned 12 years old, I couldn't bear not knowing any longer. At the same time, I had a fear of knowing the truth about my father. I had an idea about what happened but I didn't want to be right.
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So one day I came outside to the porch where my mom was sitting and I asked her the scary question, "Mama, were you raped?"
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I felt like I had simultaneously pulled the rug from underneath her and also set her free from hiding the truth.
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Her eyes told me first, and then she confirmed my fears with her words.
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"Yes, I was raped. I didn't know I was pregnant with you until I was almost 5 months along. I would go through it all over again to have you though, Britny."
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But I couldn't believe her. How could she love me when I came from something so awful?
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How could she see me and not also see him?
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I was crushed, and deep down I started believing I was evil and wrong for even existing.
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I took on the weight of the world thinking if only I could be perfect, my existence would not cause so much pain.
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It took years of depression and feeling deeply unworthy before I was able to heal and realize that I was here for a reason, and that I was not evil or bad.
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But it was only recently that I was able to forgive what my father did to my mother that night in 1988.
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It was their first date. How could he?
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I love my mother so much. To forgive him felt like betraying her.
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But also - to forgive him made me feel like I was wrong for existing all over again.
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Until I finally realized - There is Divine in every single one of us.
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What happened to my mother was terrible, but through that experience she also got me.
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And I got this life.
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The Divine within him and my mother created me.
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It wasn't the evil that brought me into this world.
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I was meant to be. CONT. IN COMMENTS
Hereโ€™s the HONEST truth ๐Ÿ‘‡
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There was never anything you needed to be, do, or have in order to be worthy of love.
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You are lovable because you are.
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You are worthy because you are.
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Along the way, life taught you otherwise.
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Your experiences fooled you into thinking that you had to prove yourself in order to receive the love you craved.
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But the truth is: You are Love.
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Love attracts more Love.
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In order to fully tap into this truth, you must identify, Heal, and release the old stories and beliefs that taught you differently.
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Your past love experiences were only reflecting back to you what you felt worthy of receiving.
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There is no shame or blame here.
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Only empowerment as you realize that those old stories no longer have to be yours.
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The truth has always been there waiting for you to see it.
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You are lovable and worthy just the way you are.
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May as well accept that ;)
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Who needed to hear this? Raise your ๐Ÿคš in comments below and tell me at least one thing you love about yourself.
Did you know that anger is a higher vibe emotion than sadness?
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Anger is a sign that youโ€™re starting to get your power back and know you are worthy of so much more than youโ€™ve been allowing yourself to receive or experience.
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USE your anger to point you in the direction of your dreams.
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Donโ€™t make it mean you canโ€™t have what you want.
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USE your frustration as an outlet for all the pent up emotions to finally be expressed.
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Anger is only toxic if you live there and use it in the opposite direction of where youโ€™d like to go.
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The anger will not last.
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Once you allow yourself to feel it without shame or guilt, you more easily rise to a higher emotional frequency.
Just gonna leave this here.

P.S.

If youโ€™re looking for support with attracting healthy love join my free community Magnetic Queens (link in bio)!
๐Ÿ’€ Death brings life โœจ
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A theme Iโ€™m processing in my own life now that also applies to finding love...
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Everything youโ€™ve gone through
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All the pain that youโ€™ve felt
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All the disappointment
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All the frustration
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All the self-doubt and uncertainty
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All the experiences that left you feeling hollowed out and used up
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๐Ÿ‘† All of that has no bearing on who you are, who you get to be, and what you get to experience NOW.
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That is the old.
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That is the past.
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That isnโ€™t who you are now.
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That isnโ€™t what you are destined to experience and have now.
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๐Ÿ’€ In fact, a part of you must die in order to step into the woman you are today.
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What needs to die so you can come back to life?
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๐Ÿ’€ old beliefs
๐Ÿ’€ old stories
๐Ÿ’€ old ways of being
๐Ÿ’€ old ways of doing
๐Ÿ’€ old ways of communicating
๐Ÿ’€ anything that you continue to do and be out of habit that no longer lights you up anymore
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Death can be scary.
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It means taking the leap from the known to the unknown.
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But unknown also equals infinite possibilities.
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If the known doesnโ€™t feel so good and itโ€™s not getting you to where you desire to be, I donโ€™t know about you but infinite possibility sounds like a pretty damn good opportunity!
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๐Ÿ’€ Let the dead Rest In Peace. (Stop living in a past version of yourself that can no longer nourish and sustain you)
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๐Ÿ’€ Mourn the loss. (Feel your feelings, get the closure you need)
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๐Ÿ”ฅ Allow yourself to be re-born into a new life. (Step into what you desire to be, do, and have now)
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Like a phoenix rising up from the ashes of what once was - you get to begin anew more empowered and aligned than ever before.
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๐Ÿ‘‘ Who needed this message today?
HEALTHY DOES NOT HAVE TO MEAN BORING
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What if love didnโ€™t have to come with
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๐Ÿšซ the roller coaster ride
๐Ÿšซ the constant drama
๐Ÿšซ losing yourself
๐Ÿšซ sacrificing your own dreams and success
๐Ÿšซ losing your damn mind
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๐Ÿ‘†btw what I just described above is not love. Itโ€™s codependency and fear being reflected back and forth between two people.
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If you see yourself in that list, youโ€™re in good company.
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Most of us (myself included of course) have at some point confused these things above for love and passion.
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Itโ€™s like a drug. Who wouldnโ€™t!?
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Healthy love is:
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๐Ÿ’• safe and secure
๐Ÿ’• grounding and like coming home
๐Ÿ’• interdependent
๐Ÿ’• shared dreams
๐Ÿ’• supporting each otherโ€™s personal dreams
๐Ÿ’• healthy communication
๐Ÿ’• sharing happiness
๐Ÿ’• healthy boundaries
๐Ÿ’• deep connection and feeling truly seen
๐Ÿ’• nourishing and expansive to your mind, body, and spirit
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You get to have this.
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Passion and excitement can still exist in a healthy secure relationship.
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When you work on healing the part of you that is attracted to what feels good only in the short term but hurts like hell in the long term, secure healthy love will no longer seem boring ๐Ÿ™
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PS
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If you would like to work on this I invite you to join my free community Magnetic Queens (link in bio) where I share a lot more content and free support ๐Ÿ˜˜
๐Ÿ’• The ultimate dating tip ๐Ÿ’•
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๐Ÿ‘‰ When someone tells (or shows) you who they are, believe them. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ
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This would prevent so much hurt!
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๐Ÿ”ฅHard but helpful truths:
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๐ŸšซWhen someone ghosts you ๐Ÿ‘‰ they are showing you how much they value you and your feelings.
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๐ŸšซWhen someone says they arenโ€™t looking for anything serious but acts like youโ€™re a couple with everything but the title ๐Ÿ‘‰ they are still not ready (and by staying in a dynamic you donโ€™t actually want, youโ€™re causing yourself unnecessary pain).
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๐ŸšซWhen someone doesnโ€™t do what they said theyโ€™d do ๐Ÿ‘‰ they are showing you that they arent trustworthy and donโ€™t follow through.
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๐ŸšซWhen someone makes you feel good sometimes but awful most of the time (no matter how good those good times are) ๐Ÿ‘‰they are showing you who they are beyond their mask.
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When a relationship is right and aligned, you wont feel so confused and hurt and unappreciated.
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If youโ€™re feeling this way, give yourself the love you crave by walking away and allowing yourself to receive better.
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PS if youโ€™re ready to heal your unhealthy patterns and beliefs around love and attract lasting love and partnership, I invite you to join  my intimate group love coaching program, Higher Love Academy
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Link in bio ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿ“ท via @createthelove

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